I’ve been scammed through depop (the seller asked if I could pay through friends and family) and she agreed to refund me when the item never arrived but never has
And that's that. Never pay as f&f for goods and services. There are no refunds for f&f or purchase protection. You are basically gifting them the money and they didn't even pay a PayPal fee to PayPa to receive the funds as the intent of the payment was a commercial payment.
