Sold to a buyer who was difficult from the beginning. It was a high dollar amount ( over $4,000.00). They decide they want a refund. I agree to it as long as I recieve the items back first. I thought everything was ok......a day later a chargeback is filed by the buyer for unauthorized use. My account is frozen and the chargeback is open as of this moment. I got my items back and buyer wants the refund, which is fine, but the chargeback is not resolved and still open. I was advised by paypal not to refund until the cc company has made their decision to see the outcome, I am assuming it is to prevent the buyer from "double dipping", that's what I feel like they were trying to do when all this started. Is this the correct way to handle this, I am doing what was told by paypal to protect myself. Does the buyer have any control of closing the chargeback or is it out of their hands as well as paypal's? If I refund the money for the ebay transaction I don't want the chargeback to go through also, can it? Any advice would be helpful, thanks
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