in a bit of a delema here, i bought something off gumtree and paid through paypal but the buyer said it had gone to his wifes p/pal and not his, he then refunded the money part went back into my paypal and the remainder to my bank as there wasnt enough funds in paypal, obviously the money has gone into my paypal and the remainder supposed to be in 1 to 3 days, why is it he said the money had arrived in his paypal and he refunded straight away but my bank came up as pending but then went out the next day although hes already refunded???? am i missing something or what,this only happened during the last 2 days so i dont know if the money is going in. then he emailed and gave me his email but i sent it through paypal again but he saying its blocked his account as i sent it by g and s so he imediatlly refunded again and its came up as refunded in paypal but is going to my bank account,but that amount is also pending on my bank account????? HELP
