I had a buyer purchase an item for about $500 (no returns) and the buyer explanation is that he mistakenly gave his 3 year old access to his account and this 3 year old purchased my item and now the buyer wants to reverse the transaction. However this little misshape will cost me $30 in PayPal fees round trip and $50 in Ebay fees and although I can use the Ebay reversed fees towards future selling I am not a big seller on Ebay so will cost me a lot. I was thinking as a compromise that the buyer pay me the $30 PayPal fees but I would deal with the Ebay fees. Any advice. Allowing a 3 year old acces to your account is a complete violation of rules.
