NSF Fee; would like all my lost money back

[Twinkie]

What happened: I tried to order a product via instant transfer since it would take a few days for my PayPal money to show up in my account. Lest did I know, it did not exclude the withdrawn money. The next day, the vendor cancels my order and then a block is placed towards my transaction.

I'm being tossed into corners. I want to get both NSF fees waived. Now I managed to get one waived, but as my bank says, it is from PayPal itself. I eventually called PayPal and they said to forward the letter to my bank to get that fee waived.

I got lucky that the second fee that put my account into -80 dollars balance is waived, but what about the first one?

[profdata]

Your bank charged you the NSF fees, you will have to contact them to see if they can wave the fees.

[Twinkie]

The banks says it's set by PayPal. You guys say otherwise. I just want everything back to normal. Who gave me the fees? And most importantly, how can I go -80$ while my PayPal hasn't went over the amount I took into PayPal: 66.00$.

[Twinkie]

Fee   PAID NSF FEE

   -35.00  -80.68 03/11/2013

Automatic Debit   PAYPAL SAVINGS DEBIT

   -64.68  -45.68 03/05/2013

Fee   NSF FEE - PAYPAL SAVINGS DEBIT

   -35.00  19.00

I keep on losing money and I didn't get a letter that it failed, just it got blocked.