I'm truly sorry to hear this. I'm currently waiting for funds I deposited last Thursday to be transferred to my bank account so I can use it without PayPal putting limitations on my account. The verification process in which PayPal deposits an withdraws money from your bank account can take weeks before it shows up on your bank statement. Had the same problem when I first made my PayPal plus account, took 3 weeks after I applied for PayPal plus account for it it to link to my bank account. I am very sorry about your situation, I do understand the frustration about Paypal's security. It's a slow process, but it works when done correctly.
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