I sent three payments recently in goods and services but they needed to be friends and family. Now the person at the other end can't accept them. The transactions are pending. Can I change them back to friends and family without resending?
Sadly you can't change a completed payment on your paypal account.
If the receiver marks the transaction as processed then you may have the option on your account to mark the transaction as delivery/satisfied. If you confirm this by clicking on the "Confirm Receipt" button, the funds may be released sooner. This is not always guaranteed. If not then sadly its 21 days.
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