My friend sent me money, via a card that was attached to her account. It says the money was sent but is pending on her end. On my send it says received but pending. I also received an email saying it was sent via echeque and would take 3-5 working days to clear and it referred to her as the buyer, telling me not to send anything till the payment had cleared. But she did not purchase anything from me it was just a loan which I really need now. I am confused about what happened and how to fix it.