Hello,
I'm having a problem with a buyer:smiley: because he took his good LOL time paying for an item and I was not sure what to to do after I sent him a total of 5 invoices over a 10 day period,so I was looking at the FAQ there on Ebay and I clicked on open a dispute and was just seeing what it was and before I read that I should wait to open one after a serent about of time I opened it,after I realized what I did was a little to hasty I closed it because I was afraid the buyer would really **bleep** me over for the money because his feedback was really high and all good! And the next day he paid for it and I thought oh good he must of seen I opened and shut a case on him and was feeling as if he was wrong for taking so long paying,well I was wrong he turned around and opened a case on me the day after I shipped it,claiming item not received !! I did not ship it out right away cause I thought well I mark that on the listing will ship within 3 days after payment..So in the mean time we here in PA get like 2 huge snow storms in a weeks time and It did not ship out as fast as I paid for it to cause mother nature don't care if Joe smo going to have cow if he don't get what he paid for.
Anyway,now I'm the one getting the bad rep because I wanted to sell a $65.00 jacket for $10.00 and ended up getting like 1/2 of that because I under charged for shipping because I don't like paying those outrages amounts for shipping so I take a little off the cost thinking it will make the bidder bid more to win the item because the shipping a good price... That one of my biggest problems,I think to much..To much about others and not about myself getting the short end of the stick.I just think now he is going to say that he never got it but did and eBay and papal are gonna ban me from being a seller..I made a mistake of not havening it POD because I was like if I pay for that along with the extra I had to pay for quicker shipping then I charged I would be paying him to take my NWT $65 jacket..I just wish he would response to my emails and work it out but nothing sent him like 3 so far and the last one was a little bitchy,cause he is not tiring to resolve this like they say to,why should I kiss his butt?
If he's not going to do the things they suggest doing also!!!
Okay I'm done now,this was very therapeutic for me and my hubby because he did not have to hear me **bleep** about it again,this is his quote,"Oh,just forget about it,it's only money" and you know that you sent it,that' s proof enough baby" Idiot !It's the point of not letting someone get away with something so immature without being at least yelled at!!!
I hope this gets read because I read allot of ya all's post,they were not as long but I feel like I'm being punished for someone else's ignorance !
Thank you,
Mommy18064
P.S.. My 5 and 3 year old totally agree with me,Ty say's don't make my mommy mad,she is really nice and pretty!
Sweet boy:-)
Hi, I don't think you should give up.. I started selling Ebay in Sept. and didn't know anything about it. I sold something of my boyfriend's that I didn't know much about (not a good idea) because the buyer received it and told me that it was not as "described". So this happened to me also.. I got really upset and nervous about this, but then I realized that if it were the other way around I would be very upset too. So I asked the buyer to call me so I could explain everything, I did and also refunded half of his money. The buyer was so happy that he dropped everything, and gave me my very first positive feedback..Its a learning experience... GOOD LUCK 
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