trying to dispute a purchase with a friend, how?

[DazzlinDigits10]

I spend $520 on a bag that I ordered from a friend.  I sent the money to her via friends and family.  She did not send the bag I paid her for, she sent a terrible cheap bag instead.  I used my paypal balance to pay the $520 so I can't open a dispute with my credit card.  Can I do anything to get my money back?  My "friend" that won't talk to me anymore won't speak to me or allow me to return it.  What do I do? 

[MY-Canuck]

Best you contact your friend... Is she really your friend?

It’s harder to get a refund thru transfer thru friends and family as you are not protected by PayPal Buyers Agreement. 

Maybe you really need to contact that ‘friend’ again...and then seek legal counsel.