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Private communications between seller and buyer will not be sufficient for PP, seller need to inform PP directly that seller is willing to refund. Open dispute and then escalate to claim, PP will be in contact with seller and become middleman, let's see what the seller says then.
I don't advise sending stuff back to China or anywhere that costs more to ship than original purchase. This has the tell tale signs of a scam.