Help with protecting myself when shipping an item over $1,200?

[RAmomaof2]

I am selling my Son's Wacom 22HD Cintiq tablet. A lady wants me to ship the tablet to her Son, due to her being in the Army. I've never shipped an item this expensive in value and want to make sure I am not getting scammed. I sent her an invoice using goods/services. Any helpful advice is appreciated!

[Whac-A-Mole]

to get Paypal seller protection,you must ship to the address on the payment notification.

if she want herson to get the item,tell her t o add his address to her account and resent the payment

you have to cancel the payment first.

This is a scam,being in army and sending to a different address